Yes I have a restaining order on me and on it my wife has custody of kids but she can accomidate it. I pick them up and take to school. Is this something i can bring up. There any other thing there's a statement that neither party shall transfer, hide, add debt to, sell or otherwise dispose of others property or the joint property. Parties shall account to the court for all such changes. Since the restaining order she taken 4700 from our joint account and hasn't paid any of the bills for the house is this legal should I get an attorney. Any other thing how does this work because I became the homemaker and she sole provider how can I get an attorney. Response would be greatly appreciated. Since I don't work yet will they take my children away and give to her.