I am a father of 3 in NY, recently settled a divorce to my ex of 20+ years. I am a responsible parent yet having to work many hours to make ends meet as she was a very lazy individual. I give her 1/2 of my net salary and still pay tax on all. Why is it that she can take half my money, not claim it, and still get assistance from the state while I live paycheck to paycheck and incur all the taxes?
1 Answer from Attorneys
Well, really she can't legally do that. All income should be reported including income you're giving her.
I'm unsure why you're giving half your salary as support guidelines in NY are based on the amount of children and for one child the guidelines are only 17%.
I'm not certain what you would need assistance with legally here, as there are just not very many facts posted in your question.
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