My sons biological father has agreed to relinquish his rights. He hasn't had contact with my son for over 5 years, and has never paid child support. He just got released from jail, and is currently living in Louisiana. My husband, my son, and I live in Alabama. My husband is military and we need to have total custody due to a change of orders to Italy. Where do I need to file for the termination; Louisiana or Alabama? And can I get the paperwork without a lawyer?