Hi! My name is Diana I been divorced since 2007. I have 2 kids (15-7) since then our life is been very stressful for all 3. Is been from court to court I have 80% custody and everytime we go to court he always said I am nt a good mom twice he send social worker to my house bt they can't find nothing agains me bcause im nt a bad person .. I worked for post office but I worked graveyard .. I'm exhausted been always under pressure from him looking always for any mistake.. I dnt have peace especially at work that when he always txtme for any xcuses .. He is remarried wt 2 kids more , and every single time my little one go to there house they ask her and looking for anything or telling my daughter that I'm a bad person and I dnt love her.. I'm really worried now bcause my oldest daughter(15) had a baby 1 month old and we keep that as a secret bcause we know his reaction and trying to take my baby away from me .. That why I'm really need somekind of advice bcause me been a single mom I can't afford to pay a lawyer ( Dow payment ) I dnt want to lose my daughter .. I takecare of my 2 girls he only paid 200 $ a month child support bcause he said he Dsnt work 40 hrs a week at homedepot .. I dnt look for any money I just want my peace for me and my girls.. I dnt know what to do.. I'm scared. Help me what can I do.
1 Answer from Attorneys
There really is nothing to do but be a good parent. You can't make parents behave but you can request orders to have him not talk to the girls about you and other reasonable parenting orders.
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