I have an almost 9 month old baby with my ex boyfriend, the baby is breastfed and lived with me his whole life in Maryland. His father lives in northern Virginia and has come to see him 1 time since we broke up in November. He is threatening to take legal action and demands I give him the baby every other weekend and I can pump the whole weekend. The baby has never spent a night without me, and doesnt really even know his dad. I am applying for legal aid and will be filing for full custody with their help soon I hope. Will a judge really allow him to take the baby for overnights? He is under care of a psychiatrist, and is an alcoholic, I am scared and do not want him alone with the baby.