My husband cheated on me back in November 2009 with a crackhead/prostitute that used to be my best friend. So Yes she hnew he was married because I knew her before I knew him. & he knew that she used to be my best freind and he did not like her or so he said. Anyway, He paid her for her sex. I found out about it in April of 2010 after being told that he had contracted Chlymidia and we both needed treatment. I had to start seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist as a result of this affair and go on several different types of depression medications. I suffer from insomnia and nightmares. I have haunting vivid images of the two of them together and the things that they did together... I just can not move past this. Our marriage is falling apart. He has grown distant and is now just no longer interested in me. I have suggested marriage counceling and he is uninterrested in that too. He is very deffensive at the slightest question that I ask him about how his day was. We no longer communicate. I ask him what is wrong and he simply says nothing and just walks away. I just can not take it anymore. I love him with evey fiber of my being. And it will kill me to walk away. We have 2 beautiful children together and will will hurt them just as much. But I am just so lonely even though he is sitting in the same room with me.. His cheating on me with her 3 (so he says) times destroyed our marriage. I have proof that he did it. I have his medical records from the health department that he stated he had a extrmarital affair and that he paid for sex and that he contracted chlymidia. I also have a taped confession from him from a conversation that we had one night. He has admitted it to my best friend who has actually came over to try and talk to us about salvaging our marriage. And he made personal calls to her cell phone from his work phone on the days that he went to go and see her that can be suppeonaed in court from his boss if need be as well as his time sheets that co- incide with the dates that my son was admitted into the hospital for his chemo treatments. That is when they did 2 of their sexual acts. Since she has no job and is a drug addict and has no personal possesions can I sue her for alienation of affection? I want that bitch to pay too for destroying my marriage. He is already going to pay. Because he is losing his family. & I think she should too. Women like that should be made to get off their backs and get a real job. And if they do not want to get a job, do them like they do the dead beat dads put their ass behind bars and teach them a lesson.